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Here are some things that almost always make me feel good in interaction:
- 1. Touching
2. Talking about/sharing small experiences and feelings and fantasies and wishes
3. Talking about my teaching, writing, professional goals, etc.
4. Eating meals together
5. Planning good times
6. Being called on the telephone
7. Helping/being helped
8. Being smiled at
9. Sharing information about general schedules and plans
10. Working together on some task or project
11. Having someone's complete attention, for a moment or more, and giving them mine
12. Dancing and listening to music together
13. Being told if something I say or do makes someone feel good
